make an option to have quick tiles toggle between active and deactivated

I use join with ITTT to control a smart light. I also use the quick settings tile to toggle this light on and off. It would be nice, then, if the quick settings tile would go greyed out when the light is 'off' vs when it's 'on'.

Rather than checking the light's state, though, it would probably be easier to implement if the quick settings tile just toggled between 'active' and 'deactivated' when you tap on it.